2016 dating tips
It may be a cliché, but it’s true—You never get a second chance to make a first impression—and this axiom definitely applies to first dates!
We all want to put our best foot forward, but we don’t always know just how to go about it. In fact, we went straight to the source and surveyed over 1,100 singles to get answers.
We lose track that it’s a person on the other end just like us, and we say things we would never say in person, bad or not, and so we throw out the common unwritten rules of socializing.
This is also why it’s better to meet people as soon as both of you are comfortable, so you can put a human to the picture.
Even if the date is terrible, you are meeting someone who you probably would never have met, and your life is that much richer. While there are plenty of people who are indeed on Tinder and other platforms for the sake of finding relationships, they are also widely used for hook-ups and simply to further one’s own vanity.
But generally, these people are easy to differentiate.
While getting catfished, or tricked into falling for people who lie about everything (right down to using someone else’s pictures), seems to be the common assumption about meeting someone from the internet, it’s really not that common. This is why you should try to use the internet as a means of .
Maybe they don’t check it that often, deleted the app from their phone, or just aren’t interested. Just be thankful it happened with a stranger from the internet rather than someone you approached at the bar.
The problem is that talking to people digitally really dehumanizes them.
This also goes for exaggerating, or outright lying, when it comes to your job, education, or anything you find yourself tempted to say to get a meeting in person.
I guarantee if they find out you tricked them, they will assume everything you’ve said was a lie.