It sounds like you have issues from a relationship that you have had in the past. I only recommend keeping your options open when the two of you are just dating and not yet official.My New Year’s resolution is to commit to one guy at a time, in the hope it might lead to the quality relationship I deserve.
’ Let’s take three random individuals that I’ve encountered within this catalogue. Each of them offer different, yet unique qualities that can be very hard to choose between – so why choose immediately? True to form, he seemed perfect after the third glass of wine; he dressed well and had a good sense of humor. The thrill of having a busy social calendar and somebody’s hand to hold when you hit your local ‘gayborhood’ is an alluring concept.
He tells me how much he likes me, I tell him how much I like him.” In other words, there isn’t game playing.
She doesn’t have to move away to get him to advance. Trust in yourself that you’ll carefully select a good guy.
It’s sometimes more satisfying to consume ‘treats’ in larger quantities than it is to just limit yourself to the one. After all, for gay guys, isn’t an attractive man the biggest treat of them all? We over-indulge in what we convince ourselves is a positive thing, until we find ourselves back where we started with no tangible improvement in our situation.