Dating the boss
Not only does it mean jeopardising our own career, but also potentially there’s and the careers of your colleagues.At the same time it is frowned upon by most people, and also a tad… All that means that a relationship with your boss could very well mean sneaking around the place and keeping things a secret and that’s an incredibly stressful and difficult thing to do.That said though, even those in it for the most admirable of reasons probably have to admit that the challenge and the ‘forbidden’ nature of the whole thing makes it all the more appealing. Well once you’re hooked you’re hooked and there’s probably no going back, so instead of reflecting on the difficulties involved any further let’s look at solutions.Here we’ll have a good look at some of the ways that you can make dating your boss a little simpler once you’ve snagged them.Separate Business and Personal: Before you find a solution to your predicament you may well have to deal with your partner in a professional setting at some stage and they might have to reprimand you or you might need to go to them for help.This can be awkward as you become unsure on how to act now that you are dating outside of the office, but remember to try and stay professional and just as they shouldn’t show you preferential treatment, nor should you expect it.
If it’s not explicitly stated anywhere then you should try and see if there is a precedent for it within your organisation and as this might suggest that it’s okay.
To avoid these situations then you should transfer to another branch or another department whenever possible so that you are no longer dealing with your boss directly. Make sure though that you discuss this with your partner so it doesn’t come across as hurtful that you’re moving away from them.
This also prevents you from having the problem of spending too much time with your partner which can leave you with nothing to talk about potentially.
Coworkers might also get jealous and try to sabotage you on the job (lame, but it happens).
Plus, if there's a company policy against it or someone can prove that you've gotten perks as the result of being the boss's girl, you're jeopardizing both of your careers. Get a new job ASAP, advises career expert Alexandra Levit, author of Blind Spots: The 10 Business Myths You Can't Afford to Believe on Your New Path to Success.